Her teen committed suicide over ‘sexting’
‘Sexting’ leads teen to suicideMarch 6: 18-year-old Jesse Logan took her own life after a nude picture of her was passed around by e-mail. TODAY’s Matt Lauer talks to her mom, Cynthia Logan, and Internet safety expert Parry Aftab about the dangers of “sexting.”
The image was blurred and the voice distorted, but the words spoken by a young Ohio woman are haunting. She had sent nude pictures of herself to a boyfriend. When they broke up, he sent them to other high school girls. The girls were harassing her, calling her a slut and a whore. She was miserable and depressed, afraid even to go to school.
And now Jesse Logan was going on a Cincinnati television station to tell her story. Her purpose was simple: “I just want to make sure no one else will have to go through this again.”
The interview was in May 2008. Two months later, Jessica Logan hanged herself in her bedroom. She was 18.
Conveying the message“She was vivacious. She was fun. She was artistic. She was compassionate. She was a good kid,” the young woman’s mother, Cynthia Logan, told TODAY’s Matt Lauer Friday in New York. Still grieving over the loss of her daughter, she said she is taking her story public to warn kids about the dangers of sending sexually charged pictures and messages to boyfriends and girlfriends.
“It’s very, very difficult. She’s my only child,” Logan told Lauer. “I’m trying my best to get the message out there.”
It is a growing problem that has resulted in child pornography charges being filed against some teens across the nation. But for Cynthia Logan, “sexting” is about more than possibly criminal activity: It’s about life and death.
Last fall, the National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy surveyed teens and young adults about sexting — sending sexually charged material via cell phone text messages — or posting such materials online. The results revealed that 39 percent of teens are sending or posting sexually suggestive messages, and 48 percent reported receiving such messages.
‘She was being tortured’Jesse Logan’s mother said she never knew the full extent of her daughter’s anguish until it was too late. Cynthia Logan only learned there was a problem at all when she started getting daily letters from her daughter’s school reporting that the young woman was skipping school.
“I only had snapshots, bits and pieces, until the very last semester of school,” Logan told Lauer.
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After her picture was disseminated electonically, formerly upbeat Jesse Logan began skipping classes.
She took away her daughter’s car and drove her to school herself, but Jesse still skipped classes. She told her mother there were pictures involved and that a group of younger girls who had received them were harassing her, calling her vicious names, even throwing objects at her. But she didn’t realize the full extent of her daughter’s despair.
“She was being attacked and tortured,” Logan said.
“When she would come to school, she would always hear, ‘Oh, that’s the girl who sent the picture. She’s just a whore,’ ” Jesse’s friend, Lauren Taylor, told NBC News.
Logan said that officials at Sycamore High School were aware of the harassment but did not take sufficient action to stop it. She said that a school official offered only to go to one of the girls who had the pictures and tell her to delete them from her phone and never speak to Jesse again. That girl was 16.
Logan suggested talking to the parents of the girls who were bullying Jesse, but her daughter said that would only open her to even more ridicule.
“She said, ‘No, I need to do something else. I’m going to go on the news,’ and that’s what she did,” Logan said.
Finding JesseWhen Cynthia Logan decided to go public with her story, she told Lauer that a school official told a local television station that he had given Jesse the option of prosecuting her tormentors. “That was not so. It’s absolutely not true,” she told Lauer. “And if he did, why didn’t I get a notice in the mail that he gave her that option?”
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Cynthia Logan is still contending with her grief over her daughter Jesse’s suicide.
After her daughter’s death, Logan quit her job and was hospitalized for a time with what she described as a mental breakdown. When she spoke about finding her daughter in her bedroom last July, tears coursed down her cheeks.
Jesse had been talking about going to the University of Cincinnati to study graphic design. Her mother thought she was over the worst of the bullying. Then one of Jesse’s acquaintances committed suicide. Jesse went to the funeral. When she came home, she hanged herself.
“I just had a scan of the room, her closet doors were open,” Logan told NBC News. “And I walked over into her room and saw her hanging. The cell phone was in the middle of the floor.”
Quest for justiceLogan said she’s been through six lawyers in what has so far been an unsuccessful battle to hold school officials responsible for the bullying of her daughter.
She was joined on TODAY by Parry Aftab, an Internet security expert and activist in the battle to protect teens from the dangers that lurk in cyberspace. Aftab said that there are laws that apply.
“There absolutely is a law,” Aftab told Lauer. “It depends on the age of the child. If somebody’s under the age of 18, it’s child pornography, and even the girl that posted the pictures can be charged. They could be registered sex offenders at the end of all of this. Even at the age of 18, because it was sent to somebody under age, it’s disseminating pornography to a minor. There are criminal charges that could be made here.”
Aftab said that it is normal kids just like Jesse who fall victim to the perils of the Internet and the easy exchange of information on cell phones.
“We talked about her being a good kid, a normal kid. Those are most of the ones that are sending out those images,” she said. “Forty-four percent of the boys say that they’ve seen sexual images of girls in their school, and about 15 percent of them are disseminating those images when they break up with the girls.”
Aftab asked Logan to join her in her fight against the electronic exploitation of kids. “I’m going to get her involved in a huge campaign to allow kids to understand the consequences of this and allow schools to understand what they need to do to keep our kids alive,” she said.
Aftab turned to Logan to see if she would help.
“Absolutely,” she said.
My view on this is that if she had chosen more carfully she wouldn't have had to do that. Her commiting sucide make it seem as if she was betraying life. Life can get better you just need to seek out help. There are many people out there that are willing to help. They won't betray you. Like her boyfriend did, like she did to life. It's just not right. It's selfish. Also watever guy would do that to a girl, your a retard. They give you everything and you just act like it's no big deal. It is a big deal. This is what happens!
Songs about betrayal but don't have a clear meaning will get the paragraphs up soon.
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
''Pray now and then for a man who, like Satan, believes himself for an instant equal to God, but who realized in all humility that supreme power and wisdom are in the hands of God alone”
(440-441)
My view on this quote is that the Devil has betrayed gods words in saying that he has equal power which he doesn't have even close to his power.
“Then his eyes lighted up with hatred as he thought of the three men who had caused him so long and wretched captivity. He renewed against Danglars, Fernand, and Villefort the oath of implacable vengeance he had made in his dungeon” (249).
The Count has gotten revenge on the guyys who had caused him pain and suffering. These men had betrayed him because of there greedy bodys.
(440-441)
My view on this quote is that the Devil has betrayed gods words in saying that he has equal power which he doesn't have even close to his power.
“Then his eyes lighted up with hatred as he thought of the three men who had caused him so long and wretched captivity. He renewed against Danglars, Fernand, and Villefort the oath of implacable vengeance he had made in his dungeon” (249).
The Count has gotten revenge on the guyys who had caused him pain and suffering. These men had betrayed him because of there greedy bodys.
Tuesday, March 16, 2010
Top ten quotes
Mr. Dumas: "He realized that he had gone beyond the limits of rightful vengeance and that he could no longer say 'God is for and with me.'"
Vengeance-the desire for revenge: a man full of vengeance.
This quote is stating how the Count had went past the limits of proper revenge and had given Mr. Dumas back the punishments that Mr. Dumas had given to the Count.
The Count: "Providence has punished him."
Providence: provident or prudent management of resources; prudence
Dumas had shown great use of resources and it had now back fired on his plan.
Mr. Dumas: "His mind was filled with a single thought: that of his happiness destroyed for no apparent reason."
Mr. Dumas: "It was time for him DAntes) to go back among men and take up the rank, influence, and power which great wealth gives in the world."
The Count: "And now, farewell to kindness, humanity and gratitude. I have substituted myself for Providence in rewarding the good; may the God of vengeance now yield me His place to punish the wicked."
The Count: "An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth."
The Count: "I maintain my pride in the face of men, but I abandon it before God, who drew me out of nothingness to make me what I am."
Vengeance-the desire for revenge: a man full of vengeance.
This quote is stating how the Count had went past the limits of proper revenge and had given Mr. Dumas back the punishments that Mr. Dumas had given to the Count.
The Count: "Providence has punished him."
Providence: provident or prudent management of resources; prudence
Dumas had shown great use of resources and it had now back fired on his plan.
Mr. Dumas: "His mind was filled with a single thought: that of his happiness destroyed for no apparent reason."
Mr. Dumas: "It was time for him DAntes) to go back among men and take up the rank, influence, and power which great wealth gives in the world."
The Count: "And now, farewell to kindness, humanity and gratitude. I have substituted myself for Providence in rewarding the good; may the God of vengeance now yield me His place to punish the wicked."
The Count: "An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth."
The Count: "I maintain my pride in the face of men, but I abandon it before God, who drew me out of nothingness to make me what I am."
Monday, March 15, 2010
Favorite Quotes
Count: "I regard this restitution as a weight thrown into the scale to balance the evil I have done."
Restitution: the restoration of property or rights previously taken away, conveyed, or surrendered.
This quote is explaining that the count will take his good and rights to cush the one's who gave him evil to balance the scale of giving thm exactly what they had given him.
Restitution: the restoration of property or rights previously taken away, conveyed, or surrendered.
This quote is explaining that the count will take his good and rights to cush the one's who gave him evil to balance the scale of giving thm exactly what they had given him.
Tuesday, March 2, 2010
Violence Fetish
Bring the violence
It's significant
To the life
If you've ever known anyone
Bring the violence
It's significant
To the life
Can you feel it?
How do you sleep
When you live with your lies
Out of your mouth
Up from your mind
That kind of thinking
Starts a chain reaction
You are a timebomb ticking away
You need to release
What you're feeling inside
Let out the beast
That you're trying to hide
Step right up and be a part of the action
Get your game face on
Because it's time to play
You're pushing and fighting your way
You're ripping it up
How do you live without playing the game
Sit on the side and expect to keep sane
Step right up and be a part of the action
Come get a piece of it before it's too late
Take a look around
You can't deny what you see
Were living in a violent society
Well my brother let me show you a better way
So get your game face on because it's time to play
You're pushing and fighting your way you're ripping it up
So tell me what am I supposed to be
Another goddamn drone
Tell me what am I supposed to be
Should I leave it on the inside
Should I get ready to play
Bring the violence
It's significant
To the life
If you've ever known anyone
Bring the violence
It's significant
To the life
Can you feel it?
How do you sleep
When you live with your lies
Out of your mouth
Up from your mind
That kind of thinking
Starts a chain reaction
You are a timebomb ticking away
You need to release
What you're feeling inside
Let out the beast
That you're trying to hide
Step right up and be a part of the action
Get your game face on
Because it's time to play
You're pushing and fighting your way
You're ripping it up
How do you live without playing the game
Sit on the side and expect to keep sane
Step right up and be a part of the action
Come get a piece of it before it's too late
Take a look around
You can't deny what you see
Were living in a violent society
Well my brother let me show you a better way
So get your game face on because it's time to play
You're pushing and fighting your way you're ripping it up
So tell me what am I supposed to be
Another goddamn drone
Tell me what am I supposed to be
Should I leave it on the inside
Should I get ready to play
This song is talking about betraying everyone and going your own way. He is betraying everyone he's known. How he is doing this is leaving everyone to do there own thing while he follows his way and views of doing things. This is causing violence to start which is making him crave to do what he's doing.
Monday, February 22, 2010
Last Resort By Papa Roach
Cut my life into pieces,
This is my last resort.
Suffocation,
No breathing,
Don't give a fuck if I cut my arm bleeding.
This is my last resort.
Cut my life into pieces.
I've reached my last resort,
Suffocation,
No breathing.
Don't give a fuck if I cut my arm bleeding.
Do you even care if I die bleeding?
Would it be wrong?
Would it be right?
If I took my life tonight?
Chances are that I might.
Mutilation out of sight,
And I'm contemplating suicide.
'Cause I'm losing my sight,
Losing my mind,
Wish somebody would tell me I'm fine.
Losing my sight,
Losing my mind,
Wish somebody would tell me I'm fine.
I never realized I was spread too thin,
Till it was too late,
And I was empty within,
Hungry,
Feeding on chaos,
And living in sin.
Downward spiral, where do I begin?
It all started when I lost my mother,
No love for myself,
And no love for another.
Searching to find a love up on a higher level.
Finding nothing but questions and devils.
'Cause I'm losing my sight,
Losing my mind,
Wish somebody would tell me in fine.
Losing my sight,
Losing my mind,
Wish somebody would tell me I'm fine.
Nothing's alright,
Nothing is fine,
I'm running and I'm crying.
I'm crying.
I'm crying.
I'm crying.
I'm crying.
I can't go on living this way.
Cut my life into pieces,
This is my last resort,
Suffocation,
No breathing,
Don't give a fuck if I cut my arm bleeding.
Would it be wrong?
Would it be right?
If I took my life tonight,
Chances are that I might.
Mutilation out of sight,
And I'm contemplating suicide.
'Cause I'm losing my sight,
Losing my mind,
Wish somebody would tell me I'm fine.
Losing my sight,
Losing my mind,
Wish somebody would tell me I'm fine.
Nothing's alright,
Nothing is fine,
I'm running and I'm crying.
I can't go on living this way.
Can't go on.
Living this way.
Nothing's alright.
This is my last resort.
Suffocation,
No breathing,
Don't give a fuck if I cut my arm bleeding.
This is my last resort.
Cut my life into pieces.
I've reached my last resort,
Suffocation,
No breathing.
Don't give a fuck if I cut my arm bleeding.
Do you even care if I die bleeding?
Would it be wrong?
Would it be right?
If I took my life tonight?
Chances are that I might.
Mutilation out of sight,
And I'm contemplating suicide.
'Cause I'm losing my sight,
Losing my mind,
Wish somebody would tell me I'm fine.
Losing my sight,
Losing my mind,
Wish somebody would tell me I'm fine.
I never realized I was spread too thin,
Till it was too late,
And I was empty within,
Hungry,
Feeding on chaos,
And living in sin.
Downward spiral, where do I begin?
It all started when I lost my mother,
No love for myself,
And no love for another.
Searching to find a love up on a higher level.
Finding nothing but questions and devils.
'Cause I'm losing my sight,
Losing my mind,
Wish somebody would tell me in fine.
Losing my sight,
Losing my mind,
Wish somebody would tell me I'm fine.
Nothing's alright,
Nothing is fine,
I'm running and I'm crying.
I'm crying.
I'm crying.
I'm crying.
I'm crying.
I can't go on living this way.
Cut my life into pieces,
This is my last resort,
Suffocation,
No breathing,
Don't give a fuck if I cut my arm bleeding.
Would it be wrong?
Would it be right?
If I took my life tonight,
Chances are that I might.
Mutilation out of sight,
And I'm contemplating suicide.
'Cause I'm losing my sight,
Losing my mind,
Wish somebody would tell me I'm fine.
Losing my sight,
Losing my mind,
Wish somebody would tell me I'm fine.
Nothing's alright,
Nothing is fine,
I'm running and I'm crying.
I can't go on living this way.
Can't go on.
Living this way.
Nothing's alright.
Well I chose this song because my view on the song is that he is betraying life. The reason for this is because he has lost his mother. He has been looking for it but he can not find it either, the reason could be he's not looking hard enough for it or he just can't find it. Also he views that he is going crazy because he has no love or someone that will say it's okay, that will actually mean it.
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